In December 2003, I called my grandfather Karl to tell him: "Opa, I'll be home for Christmas soon and when I'm there, we'll make a movie with you as the star." On December 19, 2003 my beloved grandfather passed away before I could get home. And I don't have a single video memory of him which makes me incredibly sad to this day.
I resolved to do it differently with my grandmother Maria. My husband and I took the time to interview her on video twice about her life. When she passed away this last October we were able to to quickly edit a memorial video for her funeral. People laughed and cried seeing her on video one last time.
From my own experience, I've come up with these 5 simple steps to help YOU record your family's history in less than an hour. Do it before it is too late.
1. Just Do It: 0 minutes
Every day counts - I don't mean to panic you but as my story above shows, a few days can make a big difference. Don't wait until you have the perfect camera, the perfect lighting, the perfect mood. Just start. If you're at Grandma's now and won't be back for 6 months, ask a neighbor for their video camera or buy an inexpensive Flip camcorder at your local electronics store. Trust me on this one: just do it. Tomorrow could be too late.
2. Prepare the interview: 5 minutes
Take a blank sheet of paper and (just) copy the following time line bullet points onto it while leaving some space between each point:
- birth (birth date, birthplace, names of parents, grandparents and siblings)
- childhood (schools, places lived, sports, memorable trips and events)
- education (high school, college, apprenticeship etc.)
- service (military service if applicable, rank, function, where stationed)
- marriage (how they met their spouse, courtship, wedding)
- family (births of children, places lived, places of worship, family trips)
- career (first job, promotions, companies, achievements)
- hobbies (crafts, sports, travel, art etc)
After you've copied down these points add in some family events or stories that you've always been curious about. What was Grandpa's first car? Where exactly did he serve in Korea? Did Uncle Alfred really join the circus when he was young?